Indeed small things in our marriage can make a huge difference. When you aren’t careful, you can drift in marriage and may need to make small adjustments here and there to fall back in love again with your wife. Here are some insights and 3 ways to fall back in love with your wife.
1. Consciously Fall back to the beginning
Prior to marriage, you used to have some pretty hot dates. you spent a lot of time together. Your date nights provided a place for you to connect emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually. Once you got comfortable, in married life, and had multiple children, your hot dates now seemed non-existent. Date nights, period, became non-existent. Your lives suddenly became routines.Within the last couple of years, you’ve changed that. you decided to fall back to the beginning of your relationship. you got serious about dating each other.
When you do this, you will definitely fall back in love with your wife. It has been proven to work. Dating is essential to helping your marriage thrive and reigniting the already put out flame. Try this and you will fall back in love again.
1. Turn back the clock on your marriage
One thing neither my wife or I realized was how our morning and evening routines impacted our marriage–specifically our evening routine. We began to drift into this routine of going to bed at different times. I’m talking drastically different times.
Sometimes I’d stay up doing something while she would retire to bed. By the time I decided to get up and go to bed, if I didn’t fall asleep where I was, she’d be sound asleep. Although we’d be sleeping in the same bed, it felt like we both were alone. total strangers.We truly became passing ships in the night.
As we began to be intentional about going to bed at the same time, or at least retiring to our bedroom, we noticed a difference. While it doesn’t seem like much, it can have a huge impact i tell you. We enjoyed more conversation, and we both were awake and coherent–at least to begin the conversations. We never knew how much we were missing until making that change.
3. Set your clocks to the same thing
In addition to the challenges that came from going to bed at different times, our mornings were negatively impacted. We just seemed to be on different pages. Then, after attending a marriage retreat, I accepted a challenge from a pastor. The challenge was to start each day with my wife by reading a passage from the Bible and praying with my wife.
This small act each morning helped us to start each day on the same page. I read the bible passage to her. I prayed, then she prayed. Each day, it felt like we walked out of our bedroom empowered for whatever was ahead, and we felt like we were on the same team. we were partners again.That one small change brought amazing results. Doing this, along with the other two, are three great ways to fall back in love with your wife again.
Sound Off: What do you do to stay in step with your wife?
Cuddle up with your wife and implement one of these things.